Conflicts occur in many forms such as; our friends, our relatives, our minds, our disease. How often do these conflicts occur? What helps you in facing these conflicts?
Friends try to help with a trip to a bar for a drink, or suggest this cup of herbal tea not that one, maybe water, but only bottle water not tap water. You do realize that water is a cure all? Families have a thousand different cures such as vitamins, a cup of soup, protein or baking in the sun. Our own mind is in conflict. Take a longer walk, eat less ice cream or no more coffee only tea. And how does the conflict occur with our disease. One moment ice cream helps to sooth and the next moment our disease rejects that soothing. Or the hot sauce taste good and the next time it burns. You think maybe today, I will walk an extra block and before the walk is over your legs cramp up.
What helps me? CO-CREATION. How in the world can co-creation help? First think of the definition of Co. It can be a shorten form for the state of Colorado or for a company. It can be the symbol for cobalt. It also stands for together, jointly, partner in an activity. What about creation? Simply to cause, to exist, to produce, or the act of investing.
I once read that the world is an interdepentent, vitally alive organism, of which you are an integral part. The energy of our differences can produce a precious gift we could never have experience alone. When we choose co-creation, we end separation, the root of conflict. Choosing to co-create will transform " your" vision into our "vision". Support will arise from everywhere.
C-creation is a natural result of accepting our connectedness to the world around us and recognizing it's indisputable interdependence. Co-creation is being open to synergistically creating systems that serve the universe of which you arena integral part and that support your overall vision and deep sense of purpose in life.
Every time you think you are not happy, say " I am happy". Say it strongly to yourself, even if your feelings are contradictory. Remember, it is your self- image and not you. Just as a fish can move in the water, you can instantly change to a happy, balanced attitude. It all comes down to you-the individual. To truly have good news, you must be the good news. It is no use walking anywhere to preach unless our walking is our preaching.
With a nod and a wink-HeWal